Book Review: What Should I Do With the Rest of My Life?

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By Bruce Frankel

~True stories of finding success, passion, and new meaning in the second half of life~

When Lisa from TLC books offered to send me this book to review—the subtitle had me at hello.

Who wouldn’t want to find passion and success at any and all points of our lives? While this book is geared toward those entering their second half of life, it certainly has applications for many other situations such as loosing one’s job as well as dealing with life-altering changes (divorce, an empty nest, or illness).

Please visit Suzen’s post, also on the book tour, for a very well-rounded review where I agree with every one of her points. Since I don’t want to swim water she’s already crossed, here are a few more thoughts on Mr. Frankel’s book from my perspective and some highlights.

Mr. Frankel describes thirteen people’s lives as they dawn into the “second half”. I enjoyed reading these stories since I love to read about people, no matter how old, young, challenged, or sanguine. That’s why I write the Front Porch stories here at JBN, too. I simply want to read about people—to steep in humanity.

Writing as a common-man baby boomer, Frankel’s stories form life canvases where the paints are newly minted activists, entrepreneurs, athletes, and artists. Each story is quite beautiful and inspirational. The resultant paintings are sublime.

For all the stories of wisdom, bravery, and fortitude in his book, Frankel’s writer voice shines brightest in the introduction.

“…I have experienced my own awakening about aging. Each of the elders in this book has challenged my thinking…My conversations with them have altered my own time line. They have convinced me that past failing can as easily prove preparatory as predictive. Age does not itself limit or enable us. The choice is ours.”

I read this statement. Then I read it again. And, yet again.

How powerful this is. Reread it yourself. “Age does not itself limit or enable us.”

How many times have you heard your friends or neighbors or children or yourself say, “I can’t do that now, by the time I’m done with school (or the workshop, or the internship, or labor, or [...]) I’ll be 30 (or 40, or 50, or 60, or 70 or [...]).

Stop! Just say no.

My neighbor is 93. Until very recently, he was more active than most adults I know. He’s a shining star in my eyes—and is still as bright as a comet.

If you want inspiration, ideas, and a real life manual-by-example for delving into meaningful pursuits with purpose, get this book. And if you like stories about people, not super-mega stars, rich, or famous people, but simply stories about people doing what brings them and others pleasure, this is it.

The author has extended to me the courtesy to gift one book to someone. If you are interested in reading this book, please indicate this to me in the comments below or contact me. I will put the names of those interested in a hat (OK, they will probably go into a brown paper bag) and I’ll ask my husband pick a name randomly. If you’re chosen, I’ll email you to provide an address to where you’d like the book to be sent.

That’s it! Easy schmeasy. (Drawing will be on Saturday, March 27th, 10 AM — comment or contact me to enter by 8 AM Pacific Standard Time March 27th.)

UPDATE, MARCH 27th: Lisa Allen (see comment below) has won the book give away—congratulations, Lisa! Let me know your thoughts about the book. :)

Create a great day everyone.

As my friend who is currently living the second half says, “It’s time to start living or time to start dyin’—it’s up to you.”

Bruce Frankel’s website:  http://www.brucefrankel.net/
Other Tour Stops: Suzen at Erasing the Bored (March 22), Vera at Luxury Reading (March 24), and Nadia at Happy Lotus (March 25)

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In accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255, I have not received compensation for reviewing this book—I received a complimentary reviewer copy of the book. TLC Book Tours does not place restrictions on what I write and post about the book. I have no material connection to the author, publisher, or TLC Book Tours.

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28 Responses to Book Review: What Should I Do With the Rest of My Life?
  1. Steven Aitchison
    March 22, 2010 | 11:24 pm

    Hi Lori, thanks for writing this review, the book looks interesting, just wished I had the time to read more.

    I’ve had a lot of requests to review books but just can’t find the time to read them, it would be better if they sent an audio version :)
    .-= Steven Aitchison´s last blog ..A Definitive 4 Step Process for Setting Goals =-.

    • Lori
      March 23, 2010 | 9:57 am

      Hi Steven,

      Thanks for taking the time to comment — I appreciate it. I know what you mean about wishing you had more time to read, too. Books are candy and I want to accumulate their words like Willy Wonka’s Chocolate Factory! :)

      I used to listen to tons of audio books when I formerly had to commute hours every day. I’m glad I don’t have to rely on audio books anymore, but I still spring for occasional ones when I know the author is the narrator and someone who I admire.

      Best to you and I’m sending you lots of positive energy that you’ll find a way to read more often.

  2. Lisa Allen
    March 23, 2010 | 5:49 am

    Being a bit of a late-blooming optimist myself, this book looks wonderful. I’ve shared your post/review on Facebook and look forward to reading the book.
    .-= Lisa Allen´s last blog ..Home, Sweet Home =-.

    • Lori
      March 23, 2010 | 10:01 am

      Hi Lisa,

      I’m so glad you commented today — I went to your blog and now remember I had been there before but forgot to sign up for your feed. THANK YOU! I really like your site and your creative energy, so I’ll be back again soon. (Love your cards & photography, too — Yay for the Artists’ Way.)

      Thanks for sharing my site and for your positive vibes. I hope this posts reaches others who may also be weighing options for their future — the book was great.

      I’ll be seeing you around real soon!
      Take care. ;)

  3. suzen
    March 23, 2010 | 7:23 am

    Hi Lori! Great review and so “professionally” done it makes mine look blah! But hey, thanks for the mention! Shame on me, I didn’t do links – I’ll have to get with it and do this “right” next time. On the other hand, I think there is a little rebel in me that says do it your own way! Well, whatever!

    I like to think we humans are perennials – we get more than ONE darn bloom – and so that (in my crazy mind!) eliminates all this “late bloomer” stuff. I’ve been planted in dozens of gardens, haven’t you? Look toward the sun – and bloom.

    hugs
    suZen

    • Lori
      March 23, 2010 | 10:07 am

      Hi SuZen,

      OMG, you stop that! I went to your review and thought the same thing, something, like, “Suzen’s review is so readable and it’s imbued with her personality. It’s so lively and engaging. So much for my attempt — I’ll just send everyone over to SuZen.” :)
      (Ha ha ha, aren’t we a goofy pair?)

      And no worries, you don’t have to link or add things, Lisa is very hands-off when it comes to reviews. Just do your thing, girlfriend, be the rebel we love, it’s all good. :P

      I think that’s one of the most awesome things I’ve heard in awhile, “…humans are perennials.” Shaka that, SuZen. I love it!

      Oh, and yes, I have planted dozens of gardens, too, you’re right. But, that was so many years ago. I am looking forward to having a place with room for a garden again someday.

      Have a great day, Suzen!

      • suzen
        March 24, 2010 | 7:20 am

        Hugs Lori! I’m so relieved to hear that I can really do this my own goofy way – YAY! You and I are originals, girl! And that is what makes this so fun! Like-minded but still we are our own personalities. I’m doing Gary Zukav’s new one next month and I think I will just do what comes naturally. I love pot luck! ha! Hope all is awesome with you!
        .-= suzen´s last blog ..What Should I Do With the Rest of My Life? A book review =-.

        • Lori
          March 24, 2010 | 10:17 am

          Awesome, Suzen. Sounds GREAT!
          :)

  4. Hilary
    March 23, 2010 | 8:21 am

    Hi Lori .. having read SuZen’s comment above .. I think my mother and I must have been lightly pruned til we hit 50 and 60 -then hard pruned – so our flowers are strong late in life! My mother certainly bloomed late & did she bloom .. my turn now!

    It sounds a really interesting book and I’ll definitely get it here in the coming months .. those chapter books are so much easier to read and absorb – a complete story in one go – to be mulled over, thought about and hopefully learnt from … thank you – Hilary
    .-= Hilary´s last blog ..Spring Cleaning and Passion …. =-.

    • Lori
      March 23, 2010 | 10:27 am

      Hi Hilary,

      How’s things? Great to see you again. And, you’re so funny — I love it — what you said. I actually know what you mean about hard pruning making for stronger blooms, very cool analogy.

      I agree about books being easier to read when they are tied together as short stories. Then, I can read them in snippets when I have time.

      Thanks for your thoughts, Hilary — I’ll also add you to the paper bag (your name, that is). :)

      • Hilary
        March 23, 2010 | 11:34 am

        Thanks Lori .. but I’m far away .. I’d love the book, but costs .. so please bear that in mind – I’ll get from here sometime .. just got a few other things going on right now. Hi sbook is logged – to be read!!

        Putting me in the paper bag .. now that would be interesting .. it’d burst pretty quick I suspect?!

        Go well – many thanks .. lots of response .. go well .. Hilary
        .-= Hilary´s last blog ..Spring Cleaning and Passion …. =-.

  5. Tim
    March 23, 2010 | 8:40 am

    Lori:

    Wow, great review of this very interesting-sounding book! It brings to mind a coach at my career center…he’s someone who has worked a wide range of seemingly unrelated jobs. In the early part of his career, he worked in financial services but then became a dentist when he was in his 40′s. I love the fact that he has explored so many different careers…it is very inspiring and reminds me/us how limitless we really are.

    I love the fact that you shared that quote with us and reread it. Because it really is worth full absorption. Yes, the title of this book is the same question I’ve been asking myself during my time in transition. You can throw my name in for the giveaway. Once again, very cool review…I’m off to read Suzen’s review.

    • Lori
      March 23, 2010 | 10:32 am

      Hi Tim,

      Thank you! I had fun writing about this book. And, very cool about your multi-faceted friend, too. I love those kind of stories — so thank you for sharing.

      Thanks for your comment about the quote I highlighted, too. It really jarred me loose, I think.

      Sure thing, Tim, your name is in the paper bag. I’m sure you’ll like Suzen’s post, she has an interesting take on the book — about which I agree wholeheartedly.

      Enjoy your day, Tim, and thanks for your kind and well thought-out comments here at JBN. I appreciate you.
      :)

  6. Lisamm
    March 23, 2010 | 9:17 am

    I’m so glad you enjoyed the book!! Thanks for the terrific review. We really appreciate the time you spent reading What Should I Do with the Rest of My Life and sharing it with your readers. Thank you!!

    • Lori
      March 23, 2010 | 10:35 am

      Hi Lisa,

      Thank you very much for sending me this book to review. I enjoyed it very much, as you can see. :)

      TLC Book Clubs is such a well-run and enjoyable organization — kudos to you and your team.

      Have a great day!

  7. Debbie Hampton
    March 23, 2010 | 6:47 pm

    I wanna book! I want to know the secrets to the second half of life…although I already know I am going to make mine much better than the first half and just glorious, but I am always open to learning more. It is a choice. I feel like I discovered the magic wand. Woohoo!

    • Lori
      March 24, 2010 | 10:19 am

      Hi Debbie,

      Okey dokey — your name is officially in the brown paper bag for the drawing.

      And, Debbie, you ARE glorious! You are a sparking diamond. Yes, yes, yes, you’re right — it is very much a choice. Here’s to magic wands.

      Enjoy your day!
      ~xo

  8. Cheryl Paris
    March 24, 2010 | 5:01 am

    Hi Lori,

    How are you doing?
    Thanks for including link to Suzen’s post. I will find time to read the book…reviews are interesting. And being a Coach I do read and understand others!

    I just wonder why we keep asking these questions to others….rather this should be to ourselves what do I want to do with the rest of my life. Writing the answers with the date will give us the GOAL. The passion to reach the goal will drive us every day to achieve more. Unless, we sit down and ask this to ourselves there will not be any answers…Guess what I believe we know ourselves better :)

    Cheers,
    Cheryl

    • Lori
      March 24, 2010 | 10:23 am

      Hi Cheryl,

      Thanks so much for taking the time to stop by and to contribute your thoughts here.

      I understand what you’re saying here, that many people seek to ask others what they should do, when the answer is really in themselves. I was just talking to a friend about that topic yesterday.

      I think for me — I just like reading about people’s journeys and how they’ve found their joy. I find it to be interesting and enjoyable to read good things about others. It gives me hope that there are many good things still happening in this world. You know?

      But, what you’re saying is so very important — when it comes to me, personally, I can never rely on someone else to give me answers, they’ve always come from within.

      Thanks for your insightful comment, Cheryl, stop by anytime.
      :)

  9. Joy
    March 24, 2010 | 12:40 pm

    I love Hilary’s comment…”put me in the paper bag…could be interesting indeed!
    This book has been on my will read list, so I’m glad you found much to enjoy about it. I love reading about people’s stories (which is why your site interests me as well:) ) and ae is not a barrier to me at all. I truly believe I am as “old” as my heart feels; since my heart is full of lots of good, my adventure quotient is through the roof. There is always something beautiful to observe in nature, something new to experience/learn/be…to me each decade is a new chapter just begging me to reinvent myself:)
    .-= Joy´s last blog ..At the water’s edge….. =-.

    • Lori
      March 24, 2010 | 1:26 pm

      Hi Joy,
      Great to see you today — your comments are always so fun! (And yeah, isn’t Hilary a hoot!?)
      And, I’ll put your name in the bag, too. I think I’ll have Scott draw this weekend, so I’ll let you know what happens. There are only a handful of names, so chances are high. ;)

      I really loved what you said about every decade being a chance to reinvent yourself. In fact, I think you just ‘mused’ me into a blog post for a later day — our lives as they change over the years. Thanks for the dose of inspiration, Joy.

      You’re awesome!
      Say hello to Jay Bird for me.
      ~xo

  10. Hilary
    March 24, 2010 | 3:37 pm

    Hi Lori and Joy .. thank you!! Appreciate the thumbs up … it’s great to have a conversation across the blogwaves ..

    Just been to see the Me & Orson Welles film .. put on by the film society – thoroughly enjoyed it – very different .. but have come away sort of educated but lighter with life!! One of my buds must be flowering .. ready for the cut vase ..

    Enjoy the rest of the week .. Hilary
    .-= Hilary´s last blog ..Spring Cleaning and Passion …. =-.

  11. Tess Bold Life
    March 25, 2010 | 5:12 pm

    Lori,
    That suZen gets funnier in each post and comment she writes. Maybe she’ll bloom into a comedian one day. And yes I’ve been planted in a few gardens myself and still don’t know what I want to do with the rest of my life…so can you please put my name in the hat as well?

    Happy bloomin’ xo
    .-= Tess Bold Life´s last blog ..My Dad and His Tool Shop =-.

    • Lori
      March 26, 2010 | 10:49 am

      I agree, Tess. What fun!

      Thanks for stopping by and commenting, and, sure thing, I’ll put your name in the hat (paper bag), too. You got it!

      Have a great Friday and weekend, superwoman.
      :)

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  13. George Angus
    April 5, 2010 | 8:36 am

    Hi Lori,

    Thanks for the book recommendation. I can tell this one is worth checking out so I’m off to see the wizard…

    George
    .-= George Angus´s last blog ..What’s Your Writing Background? =-.

    • Lori
      April 5, 2010 | 4:33 pm

      Thanks, George!
      Aww, too bad I already picked the winner — it’s a good read and includes some inspiring stories.

      I hope you enjoy it when you get the chance to read it. Let me know what you think.
      :P

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