A Healing Toolbox

If you’ve been reading this blog for the past ~18 months, you’ll know I tend to not post or interact online when I’m not feeling well due to Ms. MS.

I could go into the details of why I haven’t posted for two weeks, what makes things difficult at times, or rant about this crappy disease, but instead I thought it may be more helpful (for me AND you) to tell you about some of the tools that have helped me make it to another gorgeous sunrise.

Sound good?

Climb aboard!

My tool box components listed below are in no particular order.

1. Meditation/Mindfullness

Meditation is my life saver. Many tools and techniques are available to learn how to meditate if you’re new to the practice. If you’re a pro, I encourage you to deepen your practice. An abundance of books, MP3s, and such are available at your fingertips.

A Few Favorites

∞  Sandra writes about meditation on occasion, providing excellent tips and discussion. I enjoy her site overall and she draws a lively, interactive community. She’s simply one soulful, beautiful, amazing woman. Pop over to her site, have a lookie-see, and say hello.

∞  Engage this two-minute video to stop you in your tracks and help you hit the mental “reset” button: click here for two minutes of bliss.

∞  Chanting is a powerful form of meditation. As a musician, maybe I’m naturally drawn to vocalization and vibrational healing, but the vocal chord involvement and the natural control of the breath that ensues adds power to a beautiful practice. Here is a gorgeous video that always brings peace to my heart and is a good place to start if you’re interested in this practice.

2. Friends/Connection

If you know someone is going through a tough time, please connect with him or her.

From my perspective, I can’t always respond or interact, but letting a person know that you’re popping by to say hello and that a response is not expected or needed, you’re adding bright light to a life. There’s something about receiving emails, cards, real letters, and even txts that can brighten my day. (Heartfelt thanks to those who’ve done this for me, I can’t thank you enough.)

3. Art

Creative endeavors can trigger powerful healing experiences. Seeing—or creating if you feel up to it—amazing photography, design, and the like can change one’s world in unexpected ways. It absolutely does for me.

A Few Favorites

∞  Caroline of Constantly Evolving blows my mind in so many ways. She posts a new photo almost every day and I love her style, both writing and photographic composition.

∞  Ken Kaminesky shoots travel photography. The images are ethereal, unique, and downright yummy. I miss traveling, and he brings adventure to my screen, places I wanted to visit, and reminds me of trips I’ve taken. One of his photos recently graced the cover of National Geographic (yowza!), but I love this photo of the “Wall for Peace” that N.G. had to pass over due to graphic/cover design constraints. Oh la la.

∞  Hugh Macleod is a cartoonist and the author of his blog Gaping Void. He employs an interesting “doodle” style (my term) to create fascinating art joined with meaningful thoughts.

4. Humor

At times, no amount of colorful imagery, chanting, compassion, or the like can bring me out of the “Well of Lost Hope.” It’s then I need to laugh! Bring it on like Donkey Kong!

A Few Favorites

∞  Just this morning, I happened across this video. I’m not usually into “cute animal stuff” and not especially for the purpose of making me laugh, but this one make me giggle in just the right way. Plus, it’s really well done, unique, and just plain cute! Trust me on this one.

Playful Kitten in Slo Mo (click here to go directly to YouTube if having trouble viewing via my blog)

∞  I am a sucker for stand-up comedy. Taking a few moments to troll through some of your favorites can completely shift your energy, and might make all the difference. I recently watched the brilliant comedian Maz Jobraini, I laugh out loud watching his comedy.

Here’s a sample (click here to watch directly via You Tube):

∞  Purchase an old-fashioned hard copy of comics from your favorite cartoonist. I have a few of Gary Larson’s collections. I always find something to make me laugh.

A Final Thought

I am aware all these techniques are simply different types of distractions. However, when the mind is pulled from a darker place into the light, with each pull the soul becomes aware that suffering is a state of mind.

This awareness may not change the fact that you physically feel like you were ran over by a truck, that you feel you haven’t slept in three days (but you woke up only moments prior), or that you are longing to participate in activities which formerly brought joy into your heart.

But, each two-minute respite can slowly, over time, rebuild our frame of mind regarding how we perceive our challenges.

The sun greeted me this morning with a smile. And, I pass that smile to you today. ~xo

**Post Script, head over to Tim’s blog today and check out the goofy way people “save” (i.e., dibs) shoveled parking spots over in Chicago, IL. Pretty funny and awesome, too. A mini preview:

Share your thoughts about anything and everything, if you’re so inclined. What’s your idea of a powerful way to bring joy into your day? Have a two-minute tip to share?

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~Namaste, friends. _/|\_

30 Responses to A Healing Toolbox
  1. Jay Schryer
    February 12, 2011 | 1:50 pm

    Great tools…all of them!

    “We all need a little shelter…just a little helper…to get us by.” ~Cinderella

    Glad you made it to another sunrise. Love to you, Lori-Bug!
    Jay Schryer´s last [type] ..We All Die Alone

    • Lori
      February 13, 2011 | 11:17 am

      Hey Jay,
      Thanks for the lyric, good one!
      I’m glad you’re here. My day is brighter because of you, M2.
      Happy Day!
      ~xo

  2. Caroline
    February 12, 2011 | 4:24 pm

    Oh my goodness!! You are an angel. I am so glad that you find happiness through my photography. Really…I am kinda choked up about that. You are an amazing woman on a journey…teaching us along the way. Bless you! xoxo

    P.S. that kitty in slow motion is so darn cool!
    Caroline´s last [type] ..Pretty little things

    • Lori
      February 13, 2011 | 11:21 am

      Hi Caroline,
      How sweet of you to stop by to say hello. I don’t know how you possibly do it all, on top of posting everyday and taking the time to develop your photographic art. You amaze me.

      I hope that you let my words soak deep into your heart, because you really have made a difference in my life. Thank you again, Caroline.

      And, heck yeah, I’ve watched that dang kitty video at least a 1/2 dozen times now. Hey, the kitty never really “caught” the feather, but a avalanche of fun was certainly experienced for her/him. I definitely learned something from that vid. :)

      Have a fantastic day.
      ~xo

  3. Sandra ~ Always Well Within
    February 12, 2011 | 11:37 pm

    Lori,

    This is so lovely. I love the diversity and creativity in these suggestions. I have my dark, hopeless days too…sshhh, don’t tell anyone. These are perfect lift me ups and ones that wouldn’t normally come to my mind. Precisely why they are so perfect for me. I’ve been more enticed by the beauty of images of late, so I especially appreciated the section on art.

    Thank you, Jane for the link love. You are the sweetest and I’m so honored to know you.
    Sandra ~ Always Well Within´s last [type] ..5 Top Personal Development Links 2-11-2010

    • Lori
      February 13, 2011 | 11:25 am

      Hi Sandra,

      Mentioning you in a post falls short as a way to honor your presence in my life, but it’s a start. You’re really quite kind and generous and I adore your spirit. Thank you for being you.

      You touched on something I feel to be so important, we ALL experience pain in unique ways (caring for others, financial insecurity, illness, etc.) so that’s why I decided to share what helps get me through. I honor you for letting down your guard and sharing your darkness — you’re not alone. I’m pleased you may be able to visit a site I mentioned to brighten your day when you could use a lift. That’s beautiful. Thank you. :)

      Enjoy what remains of your weekend, Sandra, and I see you have a new post live — looking forward to visiting.
      Much Love,
      ~xo

  4. George Angus
    February 13, 2011 | 9:52 am

    Lori,

    You are the most wonderful and generous person I know. In the midst of what you are going through you continually take the time to provide us with things that are life giving, helpful and true.

    This is a fantastic post filled with wonders that will keep me busy for days.

    Personally, meditation has done great things for me and I know that with a little practice, meditation could help anyone through a trying time.

    For your insight, your thoughtfulness and your generosity, I consider myself blessed to know you and to call you a friend.

    George
    George Angus´s last [type] ..A Birthday Present To Me

    • Lori
      February 13, 2011 | 11:30 am

      Hi Birthday Boy,
      (Happy Birthday, again. It’s your birthday month, you know, you get to celebrate all month long.) ;)

      I’m deeply honored and **blushing** regarding your kind comments, thank you, George. You bring the generosity out of me. Your spirit makes me want to do things for you (and others).

      I’m happy you’re meditating and that it’s improved your life. I hope you decide to come back to this page if you ever need a lift as well. Or, heck, just email me. ;)
      I’m always here to listen.

      Likewise, my friend, my life became brighter when we crossed paths. Thanks for all you do and are, my friend.
      ~xo

  5. Joshua Noerr
    February 13, 2011 | 10:22 am

    Lori,

    You hit two things that are huge, but you also missed one.

    Laughter is so powerful, and mindfullness is key.

    The one you missed? YOU kick ass exponentially (mathmatical formula: L+Li=MaKa) That’s Lori+Life=major kick ass!

    You are a powerful and inspirational person, and I’m proud to know you.

    • Lori
      February 13, 2011 | 11:36 am

      Hi Josh,
      What a pleasure to see you this morning, it’s like walking into a favorite open-air restaurant and you happen to be there with an open chair waiting for us to have brunch. Lovely. ;)

      Okay, to be honest, I’m totally laughing right now. Dude, you are funny! Also, how did you know that I LOVE MATH AND FORMULAS? Awesomeness.

      I’m proud to know you, too, Josh. You are one rockin’ kick-arse machine. Keep up the great work, don’t stop blogging, and I’ll never forget the day I was converted into a mathematical formula (L+Li=MaKa). Love it!

      Enjoy, play, love. What more is there? :)
      ~xo

  6. Ande Waggener
    February 13, 2011 | 9:10 pm

    Hi Lori,

    I just found your blog recently (via Debbie Hampton), and I’m glad I did. I love this toolbox, but might I suggest it’s more “toy box”? :) This is a delightful connection of feeling good touchstones, and we all SO need a mega-box full of these.

    Given that I started my blog as a response to buckets of what I call “splats,” I’ve been amassing lots of toys to lead me back to joy. My favorite is my dog, Ducky. I can always count on her for laughs!

    A few more of my go-tos are watching the rain, taking long jetted tub baths, laughing for no reason, hugging a stuffed animal, and having conversations with inanimate objects (promise not to call the men in the white coats).

    I wish you more smiles and bunches and bunches of two-minute respites. :)

    Ande
    Ande Waggener´s last [type] ..Lighten Up And Power Up With Every Sip

    • Lori
      February 14, 2011 | 9:36 am

      Hi Ande,
      Welcome, I’m amazed when amongst the millions of blogs out there someone finds my little patch of the earth. Thanks for being here today. :)

      Ducky is a cutie pie, I enjoyed watching the video at your site. I’ve always been a huge fan of Tigger — by the way. ;)

      Thanks for sharing your ideas, I enjoyed reading them. Ha, if you could only hear me during the day, I think I talk to myself way too much. So, it’s a deal, no white-coat calling.

      Bunches of respites for you, and massive heaps of peace and joy to you!
      ~xo

  7. Tim
    February 14, 2011 | 5:32 am

    Hi Lori: First off thanks for linking to my photos…I hope they gave you a chuckle. I also enjoyed learning about these things you listed that have helped you get through some tough times. I can really identify with them…especially meditation and art (great suggestions btw). I was also thinking about a place I go for relaxation and inspiration…the book store. Hearing that Borders might be declaring bankruptcy and closing stores saddens me a bit. Here’s hoping that despite the growing popularity of eReaders…the printed word will not only survive but thrive. Sorry to go off on a tangent here.

    Anyhow, I will have to check out the links you shared. The cat video was awesome! Anyhow, have a great week, my friend!
    Tim´s last [type] ..Weekend Photographic Diversion- Dibs

    • Lori
      February 14, 2011 | 9:39 am

      Hi Tim,
      I really enjoyed that post and seeing the furniture huddled in the snow…cheeky. :)

      I’m glad you raised the subject of bookstores. I LOVE LOVE LOVE books and while I can’t really enjoy bookstores much anymore (re: MS symptoms) I love a great read. It probably makes me sound antiquated, but it breaks my heart to even think about the printed word dissolving. Can you imagine reading Dr. Seuss to a child using an ebook? (Just an example…) So, I’m with you there.

      Glad you like the stealth, slo-mo kitty. I think it’s one of my favorites.
      Have a great day!
      ~xo

      • Tim
        February 15, 2011 | 9:31 am

        Hi Lori:

        Wow, Dr. Seuss is one of the best examples of where an eBook would be so lame compared to the printed word. Now that you mention it, I don’t think reading to kids on an eBook would be very exciting, either.
        Tim´s last [type] ..Our Work Story

  8. Debbie Hampton
    February 14, 2011 | 7:19 am

    Glad you are feeling well enough to post. I loved the kitty video. It is amazing how graceful and majestic they are in slow mo. (I luv anything about kitties!)

    Great for you for finding ways to maintain joy and balance despite challenges. That is what it all about, right? I think, sometimes, our ability to be happy in the face of adversity can tend to seem disingenuous to others who have not discovered such tools.

    I,too, rely heavily on meditation. I can take anything “to the cushion” and feel better. One I know you I know you also utilize, but did not mention here is exercise. It is also one of my foundations. Love to you!
    Debbie Hampton´s last [type] ..Crazy Love

    • Lori
      February 14, 2011 | 9:45 am

      Hi Debbie (Soul Sister),
      Thank you, me too! I suppose that’s a sort of benefit to my world: when I feel good, I don’t have the luxury of excuses. I MUST take advantage of every single good day, it’s a gift. So, I try to write/create a lot and connect on those days. ;)

      You made a good point about appearing disingenuous, I hadn’t thought of that. Thanks for giving me that awareness, it’s important and I need to remember that I have been there before, too.

      Yes about exercise, I can’t believe I left that off my list. It may be much harder than before, but it doesn’t “hurt” me or make me worse (as long as I stay cool) so we all have to remember to keep pushing. Even in short spurts, we must keep moving.

      Enjoy your week, Debbie, so great to see you again.
      ~xo

  9. Tess Bold Life
    February 14, 2011 | 8:49 am

    Lori,
    You had me laughing out loud with the comedian. OMG ROFLOL. I’m sending it to 3 daughters. Oh and how Joshua say L + L = MKA…Brilliant. That’s another blog for sure. Where do these people get this stuff. I think I’d be funnier if I lightened up a bit!

    I hate to admit this but on my darkest days food is my comfort, like Katie Tallo says “a bucket of carmel corn.” Damn good think I don’t have too many of those days. If I did the things you mention I probably wouldn’t need the bucket of corn but sometimes I just want it, damn it!
    Tess Bold Life´s last [type] ..A Hit List of Supportive Bloggers

    • Lori
      February 14, 2011 | 9:51 am

      Hi Tess,
      Oh, yeah, Maz is hilarious. There’s something about his delivery and subject matter — so funny! Oh my, you should have heard me the first time I watched that video, I was alone and my neighbors surely must have thought I was “on” something. ha ha ha

      And, totally agree, Josh is one of my absolute favorite bloggers (and friends). He’s so creative, funny, and intelligent. Great peeps!

      Okay, Tess, I can’t believe you divulged to a foodie nut, Ph.D. biologist/nutritionist that you use food for comfort and CARMEL CORN! (I’m so laughing right now, in a good way). But, hey, I’m sure you’re not eating it every night, so I say GO FOR IT!

      I love ya, Tess. You always make me laugh.
      ~xo

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  11. Jean Sampson
    February 14, 2011 | 9:04 pm

    Hey, Lori, I posted the kitty video to my FB page a couple of hours ago. Great minds…
    Humor is a wonderful healer and I am so glad you are finding funny things to laugh at. I just did a Laughing Yoga class at a workshop and we ended with our heads on another person’s stomach. I laughed myself silly and laughed even harder when I saw the person’s head bouncing up and down everytime I laughed (all that ab work I do really paid off). So silly but so much fun. And since you like Gary Larson, I will send you my cartoons that just might make you laugh.
    You are so amazing, letting us know when things aren’t great, sharing things that help you keep going. You just never give up and that is so encouraging for all of us.
    Never forget how loved you are always! And keep on laughing!

    • Lori
      February 16, 2011 | 6:02 pm

      Hi Jean,
      You’re such a darling, thanks so much for your comment. Thanks for your offer to send me comics, I’ve always loved Gary Larson. Back when I was working “at the bench” as a scientist, I’d say about 1/3 of us science geeks had G.L. comics taped to a drawer or shelf. ;)

      You are amazing too, I really enjoy your Haiku as well. Take care, enjoy.
      ~xo

  12. Robin Easton
    February 15, 2011 | 9:33 am

    Dearest Lori, I am so moved by this whole post. It comes at a good time for me. I also watched the videos near the end, and I realized that I LOVE LOVE LOVE humor. Luckily my husband and I laugh a lot, but watching these today really DID shift my mood, I felt lighter, warmer, more at ease. Bless you for embracing humor and bless you even more for saying: “…However, when the mind is pulled from a darker place into the light, with each pull the soul becomes aware that suffering is a state of mind.”

    YES!! That is so true. You are a beautiful glowing spirit. Every time I see you my heart picks up and love flows into me. It’s instantaneous. I think of you so often and I am always with you. Your presence in my life is profound and eternal. Yes, always.

    Bless you for your kindness to me, and for your patience, compassion, and “knowing”. I feel so connected to you dear Lori. You are always in my heart. All my love, and my deepest respect. Robin

    PS I too LOVE stand up comedy. My brother is a standup comic as well. :)

    • Lori
      February 16, 2011 | 6:07 pm

      Hi Robin,
      When I see you here, I immediately become warm and smile a huge silly grin. Thanks so much for your words and for being here.

      I feel you often being with me as well. You’re with me. **You are Me and I you.** I think I feel a connection to fellow woodland nymphs, fairies, and other tree-huggers like us. Oh joy, and love, and all that is good! I enjoy you so much, Robin.

      You are such a loving example for all of us, and are so generous with your time and spirit. I just love you to bits, Robin. I can’t wait to walk barefoot in an old-growth forest with you!

      Oh, and how cool is that about your brother! I can feel you also have quite the funny bone. We will meet someday, Robin, and laugh tears of joy. :)
      Much Love,
      ~xo

  13. Sara
    February 15, 2011 | 11:46 am

    Lori — It always makes my day when I stop by and there’s a new post up:~)

    Everything about this one is YOU and helpful to ME, which is also you! Does that make sense?

    Well, you know my favorite way to deal with tough times…definitely HUMOR and I loved the cat video as you can guess.

    My cat, Aggie, does this for me all the time. Cats have a way of playing with so much intensity and unawareness that you can’t help but be in the present moment with them. I can same thing about watching the birds (and squirrels) at my bird feeders. They make me laugh all the time.

    Regarding meditation, I have found it very difficult to do sitting meditation. I can do guided imagery, but that’s not quite the same. For me, what works well as a meditative activity is walking or being outdoors. I can totally forget my “must does” or “wish I would have dones” when I’m outdoors.

    And thanks for all the links in this post. I will have to go and visit the sites:~)

    After reading all the comments here, I think you have lots of people whose energy and love will help you awaken to “another gorgeous sunrise!”
    Sara´s last [type] ..Story Photo- Box of Love

    • Lori
      February 16, 2011 | 6:14 pm

      Hi Sara,
      Same with me, anytime I see you, a post of yours, or your words, I immediately smile. :)

      I loved your words about your cat, Aggie. I think that’s why I liked that video so much. I mean, really, the cat only actually “got” the toy maybe once that whole time. I love the cute little ears going back, so intense. Love it.

      I hope you enjoy the links here, it’s kind of a diverse set. From my perspective, I’m never sure what will pull me from the well, so I need to keep a well-stocked took box. :)

      Agreed, re: comments. I am a lucky woman and will never take for granted you and all the loving, beautiful people who take the time to comment here. It’s quite uplifting and I come back to read comments quite often. Maybe that’s the important component I inadvertently left out, of which I’ll make note in future post. :)

      Thanks again, Sara, and I’ll *see* you soon.
      Love,
      ~xo

  14. Susan Liddy
    February 17, 2011 | 9:11 pm

    Thank you for using your life challenges to inspire all of us. You are a blessing to so many.

    -Susan
    Susan Liddy´s last [type] ..What do you think about your body image

  15. Hilary
    February 21, 2011 | 6:57 am

    Hi Lori .. we seem to be back with comfort zone of Lori!! Laughing is just so important .. and being upfront with laughter too .. laugh things off .. that’s so essential.

    I loved the examples you gave us .. and watched the videos and checked out a few of the sites .. the “tibs” saving places .. seems a bit much?! But I laughed .. Maz making a mockery of his name etc and the kitty cat – poor animal & he was right on too – til that dreaded human gremlin with the gorgeous legs .. whisked the catch away …

    I love laughing with my mother and with the staff .. as with others – a smile, or a full on giggle – good exercise ..

    Your toolbox is amazing .. and one that’s there all the time to be dipped into as and when, and as deep as necessary .. go well – and hope this week things ease a little .. love Hilary
    Hilary´s last [type] ..Spring – the season of new growth- abundant change

    • Lori
      February 22, 2011 | 5:44 pm

      Hi Hilary,
      I love to laugh, glad you do, too! I don’t know where I’d be without laughter. :)

      Glad you liked Maz, too. What a funny guy, I’m still laughing out loud…

      I hope you found some good nuggets here, Hilary. It’s always lovely to see you again. Hope all is well your way.
      ~xo

Who is JaneBeNimble? She's the voice of my inner fairy siren. This blog is an exploration and journey: my mission is to inform, entertain, and enlighten those who journey with me.

Who am I? Hi, I'm Lori. I'm a former scientist (Ph.D.), graphic designer/artist, athletics coach, nutritionist, blogger, tree hugger, do-gooder, and unapologetic bleeding heart in service to others. Wishing you peaceful day and a balanced heart. ~xo
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